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Ruggedman Speaks on Domestic Violence: "I’d Rather Walk Away Than Hit a Woman"

Veteran rapper and activist, Ruggedman, has shared his firm stance on domestic violence, stating that provocation leading to physical abuse is a valid reason to end a relationship.

Speaking in a recent interview on TVC, the rapper revealed that he always makes his deal-breakers clear to any woman he intends to date.

“I always tell any woman I intend to date that if she pushes me to the level where I think of hitting her, then it’s over. I say that because, for me to want to date someone, it means I’ve told her everything that triggers me. So, for you to now push that thing, it means you’re poking me. I would rather walk away than hit the person.”

Personal Experience: Why He Ended a Relationship

Ruggedman recalled breaking up with a woman who publicly pushed him during an argument, despite his plea to resolve the issue privately at home.

“I once broke up with a lady because she pushed me in public when we were having a disagreement, despite my pleading with her to wait until we got home to settle the issue.”

A Message to Those in Toxic Relationships

He further warned against staying in abusive relationships, emphasizing that many people ignore red flags because of financial benefits or fear of public opinion.

“A lot of people in abusive relationships saw the red flags but remained in the relationship because of what they were benefiting. Also, some of them are afraid of leaving because of public opinion. It’s better to leave because if you die in an abusive relationship, people will still talk.”

Opinion: The Importance of Walking Away

Ruggedman’s take is a powerful message on self-respect and self-preservation. Many people ignore warning signs, leading to toxic and sometimes fatal relationships. His emphasis on walking away rather than retaliating with violence is an important lesson for both men and women.

💬 What are your thoughts on Ruggedman’s perspective? Do you agree that provocation is a valid reason to leave a relationship? Drop your opinions below! 👇🔥