“I Don’t Get Approached in Kenya” — Victoria Kimani Opens Up About Love, Confidence, and Why Kenyan Men Stay Silent
Afro-pop star Victoria Kimani has sparked conversation with a bold revelation about her romantic experiences — or lack thereof — in Kenya.
The Kenyan singer, who once made waves under Nigeria’s Chocolate City label, shared on The Box Pod that she’s never been approached by a Kenyan man, and it’s not for lack of visibility.
“I don’t get approached in Kenya. Nobody approaches me, unless they are not from here.”
According to Kimani, it’s not that love isn’t in the air — it’s that confidence seems to be missing.
🗣️ “They Assume I’ll Reject Them”
Kimani believes that Kenyan men either lack the confidence or feel intimidated by her public status.
“They just assume I’m going to turn them down… or they don’t know how to [approach me]. It’s like they lack game.”
Instead, she says she’s only been approached by foreigners living or visiting Kenya — suggesting that boldness and proper communication still matter in 2025.
💡 Her Advice to Men?
The star didn’t just criticize — she offered advice too:
Be confident
Smell good
Know how to talk to a woman
She emphasized that rude or inappropriate language is a major turn-off, and many rejections stem from poor communication rather than just disinterest.
💬 Our Take: Confidence Is Still Sexy
Kimani’s comments may sound like a drag to some, but they hold truth: confidence and approach matter. Whether you're shooting your shot in Nairobi or New York, the basics haven’t changed — respect, clarity, and confidence still win.
Her openness also challenges the assumption that celebrity women are “unapproachable”. Sometimes, as she points out, people assume rejection without even trying — and that assumption creates silence where there could be connection.
And while she’s remained tight-lipped about her love life, rumours have swirled over the years linking her to names like Ice Prince Zamani and Diamond Platnumz — but she’s clearly kept her real heart matters off the radar.
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